If you are considering divorce, or have already started the process, you probably have a ton of questions. How long will the process take? How is child custody determined? How will our property be divided? In this blog post, we answer the most common questions about Texas divorce and family law matters. We hope this comprehensive guide – Top 100 FAQs about Texas Divorce – will provide clarity during what is probably a confusing and emotional time.
1. How do I file for divorce in Texas?
2. What is a divorce petition?
3. Who is the petitioner and who is the respondent?
4. What is a “no-fault divorce”?
Texas is a no-fault divorce state, which means that you do not need to prove that your spouse did anything wrong in order to get a divorce. You can simply state that the marriage has become “insupportable” due to discord or conflict.
Insupportability is a divorce ground that simply means the marriage is no longer working and there is no hope for reconciliation. Again, it does not mean that one spouse is at fault, or that either spouse did anything wrong. Image: No fault divorce by Nick Youngson CC BY-SA 3.0 Pix4free
5. What are the “grounds” for divorce in Texas?
> insupportability
> cruelty
> adultery
> felony conviction
> abandonment
> living apart
> confinement to a mental hospital
6. What is the divorce process in Texas?
* Filing the Divorce Petition
* Providing Your Spouse with Notice
* Respondent’s Answer and Counter-petition
* Temporary Orders
* Discovery
* Negotiations/Mediation
* Trial
* Divorce Decree
7. What should I do if my spouse served me with divorce papers?
8. Is there a waiting period for divorce in Texas – and why?
9. How quickly can you get divorced in Texas?
10. What is the difference between a contested and uncontested divorce in Texas?
An uncontested divorce is one in which the parties have no disagreements about the logistics of their divorce, including child custody, child support, property division, and so on. In these cases, the divorce process is amicable, quicker and less expensive.
A contested divorce is one in which the parties cannot agree on one or more aspects of their divorce, such as child custody, child support, property division, etc. These cases can be much more complicated and often require the help of a mediator and may even need to go to trial. Contested cases are usually much more expensive and time-consuming.
11. What are the divorce laws in Texas?
12. Can I get a divorce while my spouse is in jail?
Yes, you can get a divorce while your spouse is in jail and, in fact, a felony conviction is a ground for divorce. Divorcing someone in jail isn’t much different than divorce proceedings when both parties are free. The biggest obstacle you might face is serving your spouse with divorce papers while he or she is in a correctional facility. An experienced family attorney can help you through this process.
If the divorce is contested, inmates can request to attend hearings, which would most likely be held virtually. If the divorce is uncontested and both parties agree to the divorce, the proceedings can be completed by mail.
13. Can I get a divorce if I’m pregnant?
14. Can I refuse to get a divorce in Texas?
15. Will my spouse’s adultery factor into our divorce?
16. How can family violence affect a divorce?
17. Can I record conversations with my ex without their knowledge?
18. Are Texas’ divorces public record?
19. Can I change my mind after filing for divorce?
20. Do I need a divorce if I am common law married in Texas?
21. Can I get a legal separation in Texas?
22. Can I get a divorce in Texas if I was married in another state?
23. Can I get a divorce if I’m not a U.S. Citizen?
* At least one party to the divorce must be a Texas resident for at least six months prior to the filing of the petition for divorce,
* At least one party to the divorce must have lived in the county where the divorce was filed for at least 90 days prior to the filing the petition for divorce.
24. How can I keep my spouse from spending money or hiding assets during the divorce process?
25. What are temporary orders?
26. What is discovery in a family law case?
27. Can I date during my divorce?
28. What is community property in Texas?
29. How does the judge decide how to divide up our community property?
* Financial conditions of both spouses
* Employment status
* Income
* Health and age
* Business opportunities
* Alleged faults
The judge will also consider any prenuptial agreements that may be in place.
30. What is considered separate property in a divorce?
31. Who gets the pet in a divorce?
32. How do courts divide debts in divorce?
33. Can divorce affect my credit score?
34. What happens to a family business in divorce?
A family business would likely be considered community property and, therefore, divided fairly and equitably between the spouses in a divorce. One spouse could continue to own the business after buying out the other spouse or the judge could order them to sell the business and split the profits.
However, there could be some exceptions to the community property rule depending on the specific circumstances of the case. For example, if one spouse owned the business prior to the marriage or inherited it during the marriage, it would likely be considered separate property. In that case, the business would not be subject to division in a divorce.
When it comes to businesses and divorce, it can get complicated quickly. That’s why it’s important to seek the advice of an experienced family law attorney.
35. Can a retirement account be divided in divorce?
Yes, retirement accounts can be divided in divorce if it is considered to be community property. This is usually the case if the account was opened or contributions were made during the marriage. The retirement account would then be subject to a “just and right” division between the spouses.
However, dividing retirement or 401K accounts can get complicated if money was invested prior to the marriage. Money invested before the marriage is not considered community property and, therefore, not divided. A court will have to determine how much of the money was earned during the marriage and how much was earned separately.
36. What is a QRDO?
37. Do I have to go back to my maiden name after divorce?
38. What is the difference between a divorce and an annulment in Texas?
39. Will my divorce go to trial?
40. What is mediation?
Not all divorces and family disputes go through contested litigation in a courtroom. It is often easier for both parties to go through something called “mediation” to avoid the emotional and financial stress of going to trial.
During mediation, both parties meet with a neutral third party – a family law mediator – who helps facilitate communication between the two sides. The mediator does not make decisions for the parties; rather, he or she helps them come to a mutual agreement.
The spouses meet in separate rooms with the mediator and try to settle their differences around issues like property division and child custody. After both parties agree, the parties sign a “Mediated Settlement Agreement” that resolves all issues between the parties.
In Texas, some judges order couples to see a mediator before going to trial in court.
41. Who gets the house in a Texas divorce?
Who gets the house depends on whether the house is community or separate property. If the house was acquired during the marriage and used by both spouses it is community property and will be subject to division in a divorce. Since tangible property cannot be divided, there are a number of possible scenarios:
* The house can be sold and the proceeds divided between spouses;
* One spouse may remain in the house and buy out the other;
* One spouse may remain in the house and give the other spouse assets that offset the home’s value so the property division is equal
If the house was acquired by one of the parties before the marriage or after the divorce petition was filed, it is considered separate property and will not be divided in a divorce. That house will likely be awarded back to the original owner.
42. What is a divorce decree?
43. When is a divorce final in Texas?
44. How long after I divorce can I remarry in Texas?
45. How much does divorce cost in Texas?
46. Will I have to pay for my spouse’s legal fees?
47. How can I keep legal costs down?
48. Can my attorney represent me and my spouse in our divorce?
49. What is attorney-client privilege?
50. Can I get a divorce without an attorney?
51. Do I have to go to court for my divorce in Texas?
52. What is a prove-up hearing?
53. What should I wear to family court?
When appearing in court, wear clothing that would be appropriate for a job interview. You want to look professional, respectful, and serious. This is not the time to wear your ripped jeans or old t-shirt.
Men should wear a suit or dress pants with a collared shirt. Women should wear a dress, suit, or a skirt with a blouse or sweater. Nothing should be too loose, too tight, or revealing. Avoid shorts, jeans, hats, sunglasses, and flip-flops. It’s possible to be turned away if you are dressed too casually.
If you have any visible piercings or tattoos, it is best to cover them up. You want the judge to focus on your argument, not your appearance. While in the courtroom, make sure your cellphone is turned off or in silent mode.
54. Can I bring my children to court?
You should not bring your children to court unless the judge specifically requests it. Even then, a judge typically speaks with a child in chambers, not during a public court hearing.
The divorce process can be confusing and emotional for children, so it is generally best to keep away from the courthouse unless absolutely necessary. If your children must be in court, make sure to explain the process to them ahead of time so they know what to expect.
55. What happens if my court case stalls?
56. How will divorce affect my healthcare benefits?
If you’re covered by your spouse’s health insurance, you will likely lose your coverage once the divorce is finalized. Sometimes, as part of the divorce settlement, a spouse will be required to maintain health insurance for the other spouse for a period of time. You can also sign up for a COBRA plan, which will allow you to keep your health insurance for a limited time after divorce, but it is typically very expensive.
You may also be eligible for Medicaid if you meet certain income requirements. Medicaid is a government-funded health insurance program that provides coverage for low-income individuals and families.
57. What is alimony in Texas?
Texas doesn’t have so-called “alimony.” In the Lone Star State, it is called “spousal support” or “spousal maintenance” and refers to money that one spouse pays to the other during or after divorce proceedings. Spousal support can be awarded to either spouse, and it is typically paid on a monthly basis. The purpose of alimony is to help the receiving spouse maintain his or her reasonable minimum needs after divorce.
Spousal support may be awarded if:
* The couple has been married for over 10 years and the requesting spouse does not earn enough income or have enough property to provide for basic needs.
* The requesting spouse has a serious physical or mental disability that stops them from earning income to support themselves.
* The requesting spouse is unable to work because he or she is the custodial parent of their child who needs substantive physical or mental support.
* The requesting spouse suffered some sort of family violence at the hands of the supporting spouse within two years of the divorce filing or while the divorce was being processed
58. How much is spousal support in Texas?
59. How long is spousal support paid in Texas?
* 5 years if there was a conviction or deferred adjudication for family violence
* 5 years if the parties were married at least 10 years
* 7 years if the parties were married between at least 20 years
* 10 years if the parties were married at least 30 years
* Indefinitely if the spouse is severely disabled or caring for a disabled child
60. Do I stop getting spousal support if I get remarried?
61. Can I change the terms of my divorce agreement after it is finalized?
After a divorce is finalized, you may need to modify the terms of your agreement, especially if children are involved. Texas allows post-divorce modifications when there are material and substantial changes in the circumstances to one party, both parties, or any minor children. This can include:
* Child support modifications
* Child custody modifications
* Changes in visitation
* Changes in spousal support
Post-divorce modifications are often the result of a change in the other party’s financial situation, health, marital status, or ability to care for the child. You can move to modify your divorce decree as soon as one year after it has been signed by the judge.
62. How do you modify a divorce decree?
There are basically two ways to modify or amend a divorce decree in Texas:
* If you and your ex amicably agree on new terms, your attorney can file a petition with the court where the divorce was finalized to change the terms and conditions. The court will then review your proposed agreement and, if it finds that the changes are in everyone’s best interests, will approve the new terms.
* If you and your ex cannot agree on new terms, your attorney can file a motion with the court asking a judge to modify the divorce decree. The court will then hold a hearing where both sides can present evidence and argue their case. The court will then make a decision. Modifying divorce decrees can be complicated so it’s important to have an experienced family law attorney on your side.
63. What is a SAPCR?
64. How do courts determine child custody in Texas?
* home stability
* financial stability
* parental schedules
* parental backgrounds and habits
* which parent has been the primary caretaker and provider
* the child’s age, health and needs
65. What is a child custody evaluation?
66. Can a child choose whom to live with?
67. What is conservatorship in Texas?
68. What is joint managing conservatorship?
Joint managing conservatorship is often referred to as “joint custody.” It gives both parents legal rights to raise a child. Both parents share in decision-making regarding the child’s education, medical, spiritual, and other daily and long-term matters.
In most cases, the court appoints one parent as the primary joint managing conservator, which is also referred to as the custodial parent. This parent usually decides where the child lives and the geographical location of the child’s school. The non-custodial parent gets to make other decisions equally with the custodial parent.
A joint managing conservatorship, also called a JMC, is the default custody arrangement in Texas. In other words, this is the most prevalent custody arrangement.
69. What is sole managing conservator in child custody cases?
70. What is the possessory conservator?
71. Can a non-parent ask for conservatorship?
72. Will I have to attend parenting classes as part of my divorce?
73. What is the standard possession order?
A Standard Possession Order (SPO) is a visitation schedule developed by the Texas legislature. It contains a standard schedule for when a non-custodial parent can have possession of a child. The SPO is the default visitation schedule in Texas, but it can be modified by agreement of the parents or by court order.
The Standard Possession Order generally gives the non-custodial parent possession of the child every first, third, and fifth Friday weekend of the month. The non-custodial parent can ask for an extended version where visitation lasts from the time school dismisses on Friday to Monday morning.
The non-custodial parent also has access to the child every Thursday evening from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. It can be extended from when school dismisses on Thursday to Friday morning.
During the holidays, each parent alternates yearly between Thanksgiving and Christmas breaks. In summer, the child spends 30 days or 42 days with the possessory parent. If the possessory parent lives more than a hundred miles away, they spend the entire spring break every year with the child.
74. What is a modified possession order?
A modified possession order is a visitation arrangement that is different than the Standard Possession Order. A modified order can be created by agreement of the parents or ordered by the court. There are many different types of modified visitation schedules, but some common examples include:
– one parent has weekends with the child while the other has weekday visits;
– possession is split equally between both parents;
– the non-custodial parent has longer visits during the summer or holidays
A modified possession order is generally based on the best interest of the child and what will work best for the family’s schedule.
75. What is a modified possession order for children under age three?
76. Can parents verbally agree to a different possession schedule than what is in the court order?
77. What is parental alienation?
78. What is interference with child custody?
79. How is child support calculated in Texas?
Child support in Texas is calculated as 20 percent of the non-custodial parent’s net monthly income for the first child. For each additional child, the number increases by 5 percent. Here’s the breakdown:
* 1 child: 20 percent of non-custodial parent’s net income
* 2 children: 25 percent of net income
* 3 children: 30 percent of net income
* 4 children: 35 percent of net income
* 5+ children: 40 percent of net income.
Texas family courts don’t often usually require a parent to pay more than 50 percent of their net income on child support.
80. Does my ex-spouse’s income affect how much I have to pay in child support?
81. Will child support be garnished from my paycheck?
82. What is medical support for a child?
83. Can I go to jail for failing to pay child support?
Yes, you can go to jail if you fail to pay child support. If the judge finds that you purposely failed to pay child support in violation of a court order, you could be found in contempt of court and sentenced to up to six months in jail.
The Texas Attorney General’s Office also has a unit dedicated to finding and prosecuting parents who don’t pay child support. You can be arrested for failing to pay child support and charged with “criminal nonsupport.” If convicted, you would face six months to two years in a state jail facility and a maximum $10,000 fine.
84. Will I lose my license if I don’t pay child support?
85. Do I have to pay child support if I lose my job?
Yes, you are required to pay child support, even if you lost your job. However, you may be able to request a modification of your child support order if you are unemployed. The court will consider the following factors when making a decision:
– the noncustodial parent’s current employment status;
– whether the noncustodial parent is actively looking for work;
– the amount of time that the noncustodial parent has been unemployed;
– the noncustodial parent’s financial resources and ability to pay child support.
If you are unemployed, you should still pay child support to the best of your ability. The court may order you to pay a portion of your unemployment benefits as child support. If you have any questions about your child support payments, you should contact an experienced family law attorney.
86. Do I have to pay child support if I have 50/50 custody?
87. Can my spouse and I agree that neither party will pay child support?
88. Can my ex keep my child from me if I owe child support?
89. When can I stop paying child support in Texas?
90. What is an attorney ad litem?
An attorney ad litem is a lawyer appointed by the court to represent your child. The attorney’s job is to advocate for the child and express the child’s wishes to the court.
In a divorce or other family law proceeding, an attorney ad litem may be appointed if there are issues of child custody and visitation at stake. The attorney will interview the child, review any relevant documents, and speak with the child’s parents, teachers, and any other important adults in the child’s life. The attorney will represent the child in court or in legal proceedings, express his or her wishes and advise the child on possible outcomes.
91. What is an amicus attorney?
An amicus attorney is a lawyer appointed by the court to provide information to the court that may be helpful in making a decision, usually in child custody or visitation matters. An amicus attorney does not represent any of the parties or the child. The attorney is purely an arm of the court who advocates for the best interests of the child.
An amicus attorney is appointed by the judge, who will issue an order outlining their duties in the case. This could include interviewing the child and parents, conducting home visits, and requesting and reviewing documents. The purpose is to get an intimate view of the parenting styles and living conditions of both parents.
The judge determines which parent pays the amicus attorney’s fees or if both parties do.
92. What is supervised visitation?
Supervised visitation is when a child visits with a parent or other family member under the supervision of another adult. The supervisor can be someone agreed upon by both parents, such as a grandparent, or someone appointed by the court, such as a professional supervisor.
Supervised visitation is often ordered when there are concerns about the safety of the child or if the parent has a physical or mental illness.
93. Will I have to take a drug test in a child custody or visitation case?
94. What is a child social study?
95. What happens if a court terminates a parent’s rights?
If a court terminates a parent’s rights, that parent no longer has any legal rights or responsibilities to the child. The parent will not be able to see the child or make any decisions about the child’s life, including medical and educational decisions. He or she also will have no child support obligations.
A parent can give up their parental rights voluntarily or lose them involuntarily after a court hearing. To lose parental rights involuntarily, the court must find that the parent abandoned, endanger, abused, or neglected the child, kept them out of school or away from home, or has been convicted of a felony involving sex or violence against a child. the decision.
96. What are the two steps in a stepparent adoption in Texas?
The two steps in a stepparent adoption in Texas are:
* Termination of parental rights and,
* The court approves an adoption.
A child can only be adopted in Texas if at least one of the biological parents gives up their parental rights – either by voluntary consent or by a court order.
By consent, the parent signs a Relinquishment of Rights affidavit giving up their rights. The second parent (if available) signs another affidavit agreeing to that.
If a parent cannot be located, is not participating in a child’s life, or is not willing to, a judge may decide that it is in the best interests of the child that the parent no longer has any legal rights over them. Once the birth parents lose their rights, the adoptive parent can proceed with the adoption process.
97. Can an adoption order be challenged?
An adoption order can only be challenged within six months after it has been filed. Once all parties have signed the final agreements, and six months is passed, the order is final.
An adoption order can only be successfully challenged if it can be shown that, at the time of adoption, the right conditions were not met. For instance, if a biological parent did not give consent or if the adoptive parent did not meet the required conditions, the adoption process may in jeopardy. Otherwise, the adoption order is final.
98. Can social media impact a divorce or family law case?
Yes, social media posts may be admitted into evidence, which can impact divorce, child custody or any type of family law case. For instance, if one parent makes negative comments about the other parent on social media, this could be used against them in court. If a parent posts photos of themselves partying or engaging in illegal activity, this could also be used against them in court.
It is important to be aware of what you post on social media, as well as what your friends and family members post about you. Anything that could be construed as negative could be used against you in a divorce or family law case
99. How do you find the best divorce lawyer?
There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as the best divorce lawyer for you will depend on your individual circumstances. However, there are some general tips that may be helpful in finding the right divorce lawyer for you:
– Get recommendations from friends or family members who have been through a divorce.
– Do your own research online and read reviews of divorce lawyers.
– Schedule a consultation with a few different divorce lawyers to get a feel for who would be the best fit for you and your case.
At the end of the day, the most important thing is to find a divorce lawyer who you feel comfortable with and who you think will be able to best represent your interests.
100. What can I expect during a consultation with a family law attorney?
At Varghese Summersett Family Law Group, you can expect to meet with an attorney and his or her paralegal at our law office in downtown Fort Worth. During the consultation, they start by going over your “intake sheet,” which you filled out prior to the meeting. It’s basically a questionnaire about you and the issue for which you are seeking legal help.
The attorney will then go over the facts of your case and walk you through process, as well as potential strategies and outcomes. He or she will also answer any questions about Texas divorce or any family law matter that you have.
At the end of the consultation, you will have a better understanding of your legal rights and options, as well as what to expect moving forward. You will also know whether or not you want to retain the attorney’s services.
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